Here's a Craigslist ad that I just posted. I figured I'd post it on my blog as well in case people use Google to find out about a home church in the Portland metropolitan (specifically Beaverton, Aloha or Hillsboro) area. I was Google-ing such a thing recently, but I found no such blog post! ;)
If you want to contact me after reading the following ad, please leave a comment or, even better, find the ad on the Portland Craigslist (search for "Starting a home church") and reply by email to that. Thanks!
My husband and I just moved into the area, and we are
interested in forming a small “home church.” Please read on to get an idea of what we are
imagining and to get to know us a bit better. J
For years, it has been challenging to find a church
community that feels balanced and good.
We were attending OSU in Corvallis
for the past six years, and it was just over a year ago that we finally found a
church that worked for us. What made the
church work for us was that they genuinely loved and accepted people, were
humble, and made every attempt to form a good community. People often spent time together outside of
the Sunday morning service, and we got to actually know people by eating meals
and playing games together on Tuesday nights each week.
My husband just got a job in the Beaverton/Aloha area, and
after moving here I have been distressed at the thought of finding a new
church. I have looked into all of the
churches within a couple miles of us, and most of them are just too large for
us. It also seems like most smaller
churches tend to lack people our age (we’re in our mid-twenties).
I have thought for a few years that perhaps an ideal church
for us would be a small-ish group of people who meet at a home and get to know
each other enough to form friendships and a genuine community. We want to make friends here, and we want to
appreciate a community of people who support each other with the love of God,
and I feel so much more optimistic about forming this group rather than trying
to make things work when in big churches.
What we are imagining is meeting regularly (although it
doesn’t have to be Sunday morning necessarily) to have some kind of structured
meeting where we discuss thoughts about God/the Bible/etc, pray, and do some
sort of music. In addition to the
meeting, I think it would be great to regularly share a meal together and play
games/socialize. We could also get
together to volunteer if interest is there.
All of this can be done in a variety of ways, and I have ideas and would
be happy to organize things; however, I want to leave things open for other peoples’
ideas as well! One thing that I’ve been
hoping is that our community could be relatively close in proximity so that we
minimize travel. We live near the
intersection of NW Quatama Rd
and NW 205th Ave
in Aloha. Also, we’d be happy to host
people at our home, but we’re open to having it elsewhere or to rotate, etc.
If this is sounding appealing, read on, and I’ll let you
know a little bit more about myself and my husband.
Matthew and I both went to OSU for our undergraduate and
graduate work. Matthew is a mechanical
engineer, and I am a mathematician/math teacher. Matthew currently is working, and I’m going
to apply winter term to be in the part-time pool for teaching math at Portland
Community College. We are both quite shy and introverted, but
we’re friendly, good listeners, and I’ll open up a fair amount if you get to
know me. (Matthew might open up too, if
you’re lucky! He’s quiet…) Regarding our faith, over the past few years
we have become less than enchanted by the current beliefs held by the majority
of churches. We’re interested in truth,
but we have realized that churches don’t have as much claim to the truth as
they think they do, and it feels like pride and legalism have taken the place
of humility and love. People seem to
wear masks to hide their true human selves.
For this reason, we feel unable to be ourselves when in most church
settings. We have rebuilt our
relationship with God by focusing on the compassion, love and grace of God for
this imperfect, hurting world. Another
important aspect of our life is our goal to live simply in an effort to take
better care of the world God gave us, to fight materialism, and to promote
social justice. We do things like try to
spend our money with socially responsible companies, make our own food from
scratch, avoid packaging waste, and many other things. We have been analyzing all that we do to try
to match our actions to our values.
In general, one or both of us enjoy having good discussions,
hiking, walking, running, cooking/baking, crafting (sewing, knitting,
crocheting, etc.), reading, going to farms for u-pick produce, canning, playing
online RPGs (that’d be Matthew…), singing, music, and other things!
If you too are looking for a close community and our story
speaks to you, please send me an email!
I’d love to learn about who you are and what your hopes for the group
would be! Questions are encouraged as
well, of course! We’re hoping to meet
some people in our age group (20-40 ?), but if you feel like this is perfect
for you and you’re not in the range, don’t let that deter you. If things seem to click well enough, we’d
probably set up a meeting outside the home for a bit, and then hopefully
eventually bring it into the home.