Sunday, March 21, 2010

Tolerance

Today I was reading about an incident in Billings, Montana in 1985. Apparently there was a strong movement of hatred toward minority groups including inter-racial couples, homosexuals, African Americans and Jews. One family had their window broken because they displayed a menorah for Hanukkah. Through the action of concerned citizens, the news spread and a plan formed; many citizens of Billings started displaying menorahs simply to show their support of their Jewish neighbors' rights to their beliefs without fear of persecution.

After reading this article, something clicked in my mind about the phrase "religious tolerance." In my experience in the Christian church, I have found most people find this phrase to be in opposition to their beliefs. I think that people feel like if they tolerate others beliefs, it means that they are showing support for "religions that are wrong." From reading this article, I realized that most of the world is not asking for people to accept any belief as "right." All people want is to be allowed to believe what they believe without being attacked, persecuted, or looked down upon by others.

To be tolerant, all that we need to do is be understanding of differences. We need to understand that people have different backgrounds than us. We need to listen to why people believe what they believe. We need to recall that each human being has the right to choose what he or she believes. We need to recognize that we will always disagree. Additionally, we must be humble enough to realize that individually no human understands everything and everybody fully.

With this new understanding of tolerance, I asked myself if the church is tolerant in this manner. I think it often fails to be. I think there is a lot concern with being right and attacking anything that opposes what is deemed as right. We surround ourselves with people who believe what we believe, and we gradually, unintentionally begin to view others as inferior people with inferior beliefs and inferior logic. We become offended by their "wrong behavior" and ashamed when we are seen with them because we know that people are judging us. We know this because we ourselves judge others.

What about this behavior and attitude shows God's love to all humanity? What expresses hope and love? Who benefits from "intolerant behavior"?

Perhaps one thing we must be intolerant of is intolerance based on faith and beliefs. Certainly it is silly to say that people should all believe that any belief is right, but in the interest of love, I think we must learn to relate to people with acceptance while maintaining hope for change. We all need hope for change. Let's be open to discussions and relationships without condemnation, bigotry, and feelings of superiority.

 

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