Did I mention that I miss writing in my blog? I really do. I don't know what's wrong with me... Actually, I do. Fact: I find it challenging to just sit unless I'm doing something at the computer for my students. I like to DO! However, today I'm kind of tired, and sitting on the couch writing a blog post sounds just right...
But I digress.
FASHION!
Those who know me well may wonder why I am writing a post about fashion. I think it is fate. (It's certainly not because I can tell you what the current fashions are...) Two people brought clothing to my attention through two articles/blog posts on Facebook this week.
The first is an article written by a journalist who does some research about the "afterlife" of much the clothing we buy in the U.S.
The second is a blog post written by a Christian woman who is giving her two cents about the Great Christian Modesty Debacle. I am not going to summarize or paraphrase what these people say since they do such a good job of speaking for themselves, so I would recommend reading the links before you continue.
Done? OK. Let's go.
I honestly don't have much to say about the article about the afterlife of clothing except that I continue to hope and pray that we come to our senses when it comes to "stuff". It truly baffles me that we discard so much clothing in the U.S. that after thrift stores get stuffed to the gills, the natural solution is to turn perfectly good (sometimes brand new) clothing into rags or to ship it off to Africa. The whole thing reeks of waste.
The post regarding the Great Christian Modesty Debacle earns more of a response. Sheila and I agree that rules about modesty may very well go beyond what God requires (for example, a rule where women are only allowed to wear skirts/dresses down to the ankle). We also agree that the clothing that we wear does not have to be societally unfashionable. However, Sheila makes the argument that, in fact, Christian women have the duty to God and their husbands to be societally fashionable. It is with this thesis that I am taken aback.
The following ideas run through my own head as I consider Sheila's post:
My husband loves me, is proud of me, and is attracted to me regardless of the clothes that I wear.
He loves me because we are called to love. He is proud of me based on my actions and the content of my character. He is attracted to me because he loves me and he is proud of me and I'm ME!
I do not need to earn the respect of society through what I wear. I will earn respect through who I am and what I do.
There is nothing wrong with something "looking like it came from a thrift shop". There is nothing wrong with used clothes or hand-me-downs. There is nothing wrong with wearing "last year's fashions". There is nothing wrong with the people who cannot afford to put together a closet of clothing that makes them look stylish. There is nothing wrong with people who
can afford to put together such a wardrobe but choose not to.
I do not believe that I can justify spending my money on a fashionable wardrobe in this society. Women are expected to have a bunch of different outfits and be in fashion at all times (even when fashions change on a dime). This can be expensive, and I feel that I can be a better steward of our resources.
I do not believe that I can justify the environmental and social ramifications of a fashionable wardrobe. Creating fashion creates waste through the production of the fabric, the shipping of everything, and the discards readily cast aside as fashion changes. Additionally, if I buy new clothing, I run the risk of supporting a company that allows horrible work conditions unless I do my research first.
I do believe that I should respect, appreciate, and thank God for the clothing and resources that God has provided. This keeps me satisfied with what I have instead of in want for more. This encourages me to wear my clothing until it is worn out. This prevents me from feeling like I have "nothing to wear".
Overall, I personally found that Sheila has too much concern for appearances and plays into what I believe is one of our culture's issues. While you may have noticed that I wrestle with some of what Paul wrote, I think that this is something particularly beautiful that he left us:
Since prayer is at the bottom of all this, what I want mostly is for men to pray—not shaking angry fists at enemies but raising holy hands to God. And I want women to get in there with the men in humility before God, not primping before a mirror or chasing the latest fashions but doing something beautiful for God and becoming beautiful doing it.
1 Timothy 2:9-10
I pray for beauty from doing something beautiful for God!
As always, you are more than welcome to disagree with me, but I thought that I'd get my perspective out there since, after all, this is my blog. :)
